Tag: Modern Behaviour
Does your partner change your personality? the research says more than you think
Does your partner change your personality? Most people would say yes, in a vague, intuitive way. You pick up their phrases. You start watching the shows they like. You order differently at restaurants than you did before. Small things. Surface things. The research published this week in Clinical Psychological Science suggests the change goes considerably…
What I learnt from my kurdish barber in london
What I learnt from my barber in London is something I realised only after the haircut was done and when I was already outside. That is the thing about a good story. It keeps you warm long enough that you do not notice you are leaving with less than you came for. It was one…
What is dharma? what the mahabharata knew about losing everything
What is Dharma? It is the question the Mahabharata spends eighteen books answering and never quite resolves. That is not a failure of the text. That is the point. The oldest stories we have are not about winning. They are about what a person does when the ground gives way. When the thing they built…
Why dont men ask follow-up questions? the answer is more interesting than you think
Why dont men ask follow-up questions is one of those complaints that surfaces constantly. In dating conversations. In friendships. In marriages that have been running for twenty years. A woman finishes saying something. A man responds. He does not ask what happened next. He does not ask how she felt. He moves on or offers…
Yoga Kshema Meaning: the bhagavad gita verse nobody finishes reading
Yoga kshema meaning, in its simplest translation, is this: acquisition and preservation. Yoga is the act of obtaining what you do not yet have. Kshema is the act of protecting what you already do. Two words. Two anxieties. The entire architecture of the human mind. The verse they come from is Chapter 9, Verse 22…
What Kama Actually Means: the ancient secret nobody told you about pleasure
There is a word you already know. You know it the way most people know it. As something charged. Something that requires a lowered voice or a knowing look. Something that sits in the imagination alongside incense and candlelight and the particular silence of a room where two people have decided to stop talking. The…
How the shows you watch are quietly teaching you marketing
Marketing lessons from TV shows are rarely what people expect to find. But they are there. In every episode. Not a textbook. Not a lecture. Not a course you paid for. The shows you watch late at night. The characters you follow. The lines that surface in your mind weeks later when you are doing…
An Astrologers Day by RK Narayan: the con man who told the truth
An Astrologer’s Day by RK Narayan is a story about a fraud. A man who knows nothing about the stars. Who cannot read the future. Who sits under a tamarind tree every day in a busy market and tells people what they need to hear so they will pay him and go home. He is…
Therapy generation anxiety: the paradox nobody wants to admit
Therapy generation anxiety is the paradox nobody in the mental health industry wants to talk about. Generation Z is the most therapised generation in history. More young people are in therapy, talking about their feelings, using mental health language, and identifying their emotional states than at any previous point in recorded human history. The stigma…
From trusting everyone to trusting no one but yourself
What nobody tells you about moving abroad alone is the sea of questions to come. Nobody warns you about the silence. Not the silence of an empty apartment. Not the silence of a city that does not know your name. The silence that sets in when you realise that for the first time in your…
